ART OF LETTING GO

This is from my friend. I just want to share it with you guys.



Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But, fly! Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still will not rain forever. One day the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of those is where you will build your rest and start over again. It’s never too late. Remember that you may find love and lose it, but “WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT.”

With love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. We learn to share and reach out. We learn to be unselfish and give more than we can. And when everything doesn’t end well, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that “LIFE DOESN’T END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGINS.”

There is no future in a relationship of lies and selfishness. It’s true, there’s life in love. Make a choice not based on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that “HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE.”

You don’t have to forget someone you love. What you have to learn is to ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. You would be better off giving that love and dedication to someone more deserving. Don’t let your heart run your life; let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that when you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.

“IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN’T MEAN YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT THE TEARS WASH AWAY THE HURT AND BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT WITH YOU. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU.” It’s true that love can wait forever, but it is crazy to stubbornly hope for someone who doesn’t even care or understand how you feel. Don’t waste your time waiting for someone who never really cared about how you would have felt. Open you heart again and give yourself the chance to find the man who would make loving worth the pain and sacrifice.

GOD wakes up in the middle of a storm to teach us a lesson. He takes away the people we love, so we can learn to value love itself. He makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we open our eyes. He makes us bitter so we can realize that there is no genuine happiness if we only think of our needs and not of others. “GOD ALLOWS US TO EXPERIENCE THE PAIN TO MAKE US STRONGER AND BETTER PERSONS. HE WILL SEE US THROUGH THE MOST TRYING AND DIFFICULT TIMES IN OUR LIVES AND ONLY IF WE PUT OUR TRUST IN HIM WE CAN LEARN TO FIND JOY IN OUR HEARTS AND HAPPINESS IN OUR SORROWS.”

Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated to us. It is a resolve that we make ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadows, there will always be light after darkness and lonely moments. There is always hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try. “LOSING SOMEONE WE LOVE MAY NOT BE A LOSS AT ALL BUT A BLESSING BECAUSE SOMEONE EVEN MORE DESERVING IS YET TO COME.”